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HEY YOU, MOTHER...

The most alive version of you, and a real plan to keep her.

Welcome to Alive & Free Mothers Retreat

There's a version of you that's been waiting. Not the capable one, not the one who remembers everyone's appointments.

The one who laughs from her belly, says the true thing out loud, and takes up room without apologising for it.

4 days in 15 acres of bush in Mandurah, Western Australia. Somatic and nervous system work that lands in the body.

A schedule that surprises you, excites you, grows you. Horses that read what you can't say out loud. Fire, sauna, movement, sleep, and food you didn't have to think about. Every part of it chosen to invoke: pleasure. play. purpose.

It goes deep. It's also warm, ridiculously fun and full of women who feel like home. You'll leave more vibrant, free and joyful with the tools to stay that way.

If that feels alive in you, you'll know.

Dates & Bookings

Upcoming Dates:

Thursday, 26 - Sunday, 29 November 2026

Mandurah, WA

8 spots left

Earlybird ends 31 August 2026

Come and Gather

When a mother rises, everything changes...

Our philosophy is simple: you deserve a space where the pressure drops, your nervous system resets, and your brilliance returns. We create experiences that dissolve overwhelm, soothe the body, and bring you back into connection with your intuition, joy, and aliveness.

When you’re running on empty - juggling the mental load, absorbing everyone’s emotions, and quietly holding everything together - life starts to feel heavy, flat, and unsustainable. ​

Through restorative practices, grounded conversations, deep rest, and practical tools you can actually use at home, we help you move from burnout to clarity… from resentment to rejuvenation… from survival mode to a life that feels spacious, energised, and true. This retreat isn’t about escaping your life; it’s about remembering the woman inside the mother, and giving her the nourishment she needs to lead with confidence, ease, and light again.

What to Expect

Turn off your phone, step into the bush, you're here to remember what life is all about...

This retreat is for you if…

  • You’re craving more than just a break…you’re craving life.

  • You miss the version of you that was silly, sensual, and fully expressed.

  • You’re ready to shake off the dust of routine and feel deeply connected…to your body, to nature, to your people.

  • You want a weekend of firelight, barefoot dancing, belly laughs, creative play, and shared magic.

  • You know exactly which sister-friend you want beside you when it all comes alive again.

Come alive with pleasure and purpose as you dance, play, journal, laugh, take a sauna or simply enjoy the beauty of the 15 acre property.

LIVE A LIFE BY DESIGN

Rewild your joy. Reclaim your aliveness. Reignite your wonder.

Live workshops for embodied reconnection, nervous system repair, and playful liberation.

🌿Daily rituals

Barefoot movement, nature connection, spontaneous expression.

💬 Soul-sister circle

Heart-open sharing, story-weaving, truth-speaking without masks.

✨ Creativity & rewilding

Intuitive crafting, messy beauty, laughter that wakes your cells.

🔥 Firelight revelry

Singing, truth-telling, star-gazing with women who feel like home.

🧘‍♀️ Embodied expression

Movement, breath, play, improvisation - action that awakens and surprises you.

🍓 Incredible food

Nourishing, colourful, wholesome farm to table meals.

🌿 Growth & transformation

New tools to take home to continue your journey of becoming.

🧠 Science backed

Everything we do is designed to maximise your personal growth journey.

The Gather Project Group Picture Taking

WHAT IS INCLUDED

You Get This and Much More...

🏠 4 days/3 nights beautiful private accommodation: Either your own king or queen room or share with a friend

⚙️ Soul-stirring welcome ceremony to set the tone for magic

☁️ Intimate and nurturing setting with strictly limited numbers

🤝 Expert facilitators and mentors who understand the journey

🍽️ Private onsite chef - delicious, wholesome farm to table meals: Daily breakfast, lunch & dinner, afternoon teas, snacks...catering to various dietary requirements

⭐ Ceremony under the stars to remember your place in the bigger story and reconnect with your deeper purpose

🌞 Comedy games to get you laughing (not scary and optional!)

❤️ Workshops, meditation, yoga and other activities to develop new skills and more self-awareness

🔥 Fire Circle Night for release, reflection, and the ancient medicine of women gathered around flame.

☑️ Breakthrough sessions that shift the needle

🛁 Guided sauna & icebath

👁️ Sunrise Activation to greet the day with clarity, intention, and embodied presence.

🔗 Connections with your new soul-driven bestie mums

🌲 Bush immersions and grounding practices to calm the nervous system and awaken inner steadiness.

🎙️ Vocal expression to unlock creativity and emotional wisdom.

➗ Optional extra discounted $90/hour professional body massage

Valued At $4590.

Your investment: from $1690

Why THIS MATTERS?

Alive & Free is more than a retreat; it's a transformational experience, an opportunity to re-find yourself

Because caring for others is just one expression of your wild, beautiful self.
 Because routine can dull your sparkle, and joy wakes it back up.
Because you deserve to feel playful, sensual, curious, and creatively alive again.
Because this isn’t about slowing down and resting more - it’s about waking up.

Join us to embark on a journey of self-discovery, empowerment and connection.

OUR PHILOSOPHY

We see mothers as the emotional heartbeat of their families... and when a mother feels supported, connected and alive, the whole home shifts.

In these spaces, mothers can exhale, be witnessed, and return to the version of themselves that feels clear, powerful and deeply present.

Testimonials

What our clients say

~ Rae Barratt , Mandurah

~ Juanita Westphal, Rockingham

~ Claire Van Der Merwe, Perth

~ Emily Lyons, Perth

PICTURE GALLERY

What if you felt energised, grounded, and clear again? Yes… it’s possible.

Because we believe that life that can be this delicious. And we get to choose.

HELLO FROM US

Meet your hosts

Andrea Nerva

Andrea Nerva is the co-creator and lead facilitator of Every Woman's Rite, offering

transformative workshops, retreats and ceremonies that honour life's rites of

passage and celebrate womens' journeys.

With more than 30 years in education and over 25 years of lived experience as a

mother, Andrea brings exceptional wisdom, warmth and presence to every space

she facilitates. Her work is devoted to helping women and mothers navigate

life's transitions with greater confidence, self-awareness and joy.

Holding a Bachelor of Arts in Education and trained as a Steiner Teacher, Andrea

beautifully integrates educational practice with a deep understanding of psychology,

emotional wellbeing and human development. Over the years, she has supported

thousands of women to reconnect with their authentic selves and embrace

the next chapter of their lives with courage and purpose.

Andrea's gentle, grounded approach creates an atmosphere where women feel safe

to open their hearts, celebrate one another and create memories that last long after

the retreat ends.

Daniela Cooper

Daniela is the founder of The Gather Project, a qualified counsellor, somatic

practitioner, equine assisted psychotherapist and mother of four.

Before dedicating her life to transformational work, Daniela spent over 20 years

leading high-performing teams in the corporate world, including as a state-wide

News Editor. While her career was built on leadership, strategy and delivering under

pressure, it also gave her a firsthand understanding of the relentless pace, invisible

mental load and constant expectations so many mothers quietly carry

Today, Daniela combines that real-world leadership experience with professional

training in counselling, nervous system regulation and somatic practice to create

retreats that are both deeply meaningful and thoughtfully designed. Her unique

approach blends evidence-informed psychology with creativity, play, nature and

genuine human connection, allowing families to experience lasting transformation

without losing the joy along the way.

Having navigated her own journey through burnout, divorce, single motherhood and

rebuilding life from the ground up, Daniela understands how easy it is for women to

lose themselves while caring for everyone else. Her greatest passion is creating

spaces where mothers can slow down, reconnect, celebrate one

another and build relationships that continue to flourish long after the retreat has

ended.

Daniela believes that some of life's most powerful transformations don't happen

through more information. They happen through shared experiences, courageous

conversations and feeling truly seen. Every retreat she creates is designed to offer

exactly that.

YOUR ACCOMMODATION

Set into 15 acres of bush on the coast in Mandurah

A hidden pocket of nature close enough to reach easily… yet far enough to feel like a true escape. Where the city noise disappears and the bush wraps around you like a deep exhale. Wake to birdsong, soft morning light, and the kind of stillness your nervous system has been craving.

Accommodation options are beautiful private bedrooms for those who want to be in the main house as well as exquisite glamping bell tents, for those wanting to be even closer to nature.

BOOK YOUR RETREAT

Book your retreat

Early Bird Pricing - save $300 until 31 August 2026.

You are purchasing a retreat spot that admits 1 person to Alive+Free Mothers Retreat from 26-29 November 2026.

$1,690

Shared Room Twin Share

$350

Shared Room Payment Plan

$350 deposit plus 12 fortnightly payments of $125.75

$2,090

Private

Room

$350

Private Room Payment Plan

$350 deposit plus 12 fortnightly payments of $162.42

Sample Schedule
A Glimpse Into Your Weekend

Day 1

The day you set
everything down

The Arrival

  • Welcome, chai and something warm from the oven.

  • The Gathering : the outside world left at the gate, deepening into your body & freedom

  • A long, unhurried dinner

  • Unleashing your voice: connecting to your power

  • Firelight, song, and real conversation

Day 2

The Unwinding

Slow on purpose.

  • A gentle waking with the sun

  • Breakfast, taken slowly

  • The Morning Circle with archetypal activation, held by candlelight

  • The Fire & Ice Ritual : sauna, cold plunge, breathplay, repeat

  • A long lunch

  • Cycle Wisdom & Intimacy : a conversation most women have never been invited into

  • The Long Soak : warm magnesium waters under open sky, nowhere to be

  • Dinner

  • Guided blindfolded dance unwatched

Day 3

The Remembering

The deep day.

  • Breath & movement as the valley wakes

  • Breakfast

  • Sacred Sensuality: Releasing blocks with guest embodiment faciltiator Hayley Michelle Andrews

  • Lunch

  • Live sound journey: to bring you into deep restoration

  • Horse Whispers : they read what you can't say out loud

  • A long lunch

  • Beneath the Roles: meeting the woman beneath everything you carry

  • The Hands Ritual: massage with native botanicals

  • A celebration dinner

Day 4

The Return

Home, but lighter.

  • Japanese-inspired tea ceremony

  • A dawn walk to the ancient thrombolites and the famous Giant

  • Chai and breakfast by the water

  • The Lightness : an hour of play and laughter, no skill or performing required

  • The Closing Circle

  • Farewell

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FAQS

Frequently asked questions

I'd be coming on my own. Will everyone else already know each other?

Most women come solo. A few come with a friend. By the second morning you can't tell who arrived with who.

How many women will be there?

We keep it small on purpose, 8 women. Small enough that you'll know everyone's name and story by the end.

What if I'm the oldest? Or the youngest?

Our groups usually span 30-odd years, from mums with toddlers to mums with grandkids. The thing everyone has in common isn't age, it's having spent a long time being the one nurtures.

Do I have to dance? Or sing? Or share? Or do improvisation?

No. Every single thing is an invitation. Sit out the dance, stay quiet in the circle, watch from the side with a cup of tea. Nobody will single you out and nobody will make it awkward. Choosing what you do and don't do is part of the point.

Do I need experience with horses?

None at all, and you won't be riding. This is quiet, ground-based work. Horses respond to how you actually are rather than how you're presenting, which is why it lands the way it does. If horses make you nervous, tell us and you can start by simply being nearby.

Is the cold plunge compulsory?

Not remotely. And if you have a heart condition, high or low blood pressure, are pregnant, or are on medication that affects your heart, please tell us in your registration form and talk to your doctor first. Same for the breathwork. We encourage listening to your body. There's a warm sauna and a fire either way.

I'm not very fit. Is that a problem?

Not at all. The movement is gentle and everything is adaptable. The longest walk is a flat morning wander to the water.

Is this a spiritual retreat?

No particular faith or belief system is promoted here. It's grounded, warm and inclusive, drawing on counselling, somatic practice, ritual and modern psychology. You'll feel comfortable whatever you do or don't believe.

Is it true, no phones?

Very true, and it's usually the thing women thank us for most. We'll have staff with cameras and we promise to share the photos. Just grab someone and ask.

What if I cry?

You probably will at some point, and so will most of the room. Nobody makes a thing of it.

What do I need to bring?

Once you're booked we'll send you a proper list. The short version is comfortable clothes, something warm for the evenings, swimmers, and toiletries.

Can you cater for allergies and dietary needs?

Yes, all of them. We'll ask for the details in your registration form so our private onsite chef can plan around it.

Do I have to be a mother to come?

We think of mother as a verb, not a noun. If you're the one who holds things together for the people around you, you belong here.

What if I need to arrive late or leave early?

Sorry, but no. You're in for the whole thing. Once we're on retreat we're there to stay, unless there's an unforeseen emergency. Coming and going pulls the thread for everyone.

What time do I arrive and leave?*

We start at 4pm on the first day and leave at noon on the last day.

Can I get a refund after I book?*

We don't provide refunds if you change your mind or can't make it. You may transfer your registration to another woman, as long as she passes our application process. Please have a good think before booking. By booking you're agreeing to our Terms & Conditions.

What happens after the retreat?

You'll go home with practices you can actually use, and a group of women who know exactly where you've been. Every group so far has stayed in touch on their own, and we encourage it. There's ongoing mentoring available too if you want it.

Still not sure?

Book a free chat. No pitch, no pressure. Just a conversation about whether this is the right thing for you right now .

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